The Art of Masculine Space Holding: An Introduction
A FREE masterclass for men
Introducing the pathways to becoming a more embodied man with clear intention, presence, & inner/outer health. Learn what a man can offer to the birth space in this rare, free masterclass with Dr. Andy Kaufman & Eyla Cuenca.
Discover how to stay present & self-possessed during the marathon of birth.
Childbirth is a portal into your most sovereign self.
But as a man, what exactly is your role?
Under ideal conditions, birth is an initiatory ritual that invites both men & women to step through fear & into radical self-trust. But a man’s role in the birth process can seem murky. You might be wondering…
“Do I need to learn all the ins & outs of physiological birth?”
“What kind of support should I offer?”
“Isn’t there a fine line between showing up & over-stepping?”
When a man knows how to be a present, self-contained space-holder, birth can be like a magnetic force that turns up the volume on intimacy, polarity, & connection. But when men don’t offer proper containment, women shut down, & spiral into survival mode. This sea change leads to deep burrowing resentment, frayed sexual connection, & loss of a shared future.
If you’re a man who wants to hold space for this sacred rite of passage (and avoid the mistakes that hijack intimacy long-term), join us for a brand new, FREE masterclass.
Become the father, leader, & space holder she needs
What's inside this powerful masterclass + Q&A...
You’ll learn the essential work men can do to prepare psychologically, physically, & energetically for their partner’s birth.
We’ll explore…
- How to process fear & uncertainty during & leading up to birth – plus what is and isn’t helpful to share with your woman
- The unique posture men should take to ground their women during birth (recognizing that men are NOT doulas & aren’t intended to be emotional or spiritual space holders)
- What men need to know about detoxification, nutrition, & testosterone
- The essential practice that often makes the difference between a fear-saturated birth & an easeful one–and how you fit into this equation
- Why giving birth outside the medical system can be essential for the health of your woman, baby, & relationship
- Andy’s experiences with home births, plus best practices & pitfalls to be aware of
- How to offer containment to your woman & avoid the mistakes that sabotage it (leading to loss of intimacy, polarity, & sexual connection after birth)
The invitation
This free, masterclass will be perfect if you’d like to…
- Embody what your woman needs from you during the marathon of birth
- Communicate effectively (especially when things feel uncertain or out of control) without scaring her
- Cultivate discernment so you avoid unnecessary or harmful interventions
- Avoid the common intimacy saboteurs that come with birth (during postpartum & onward)
- Internalize essential practices for processing uncertainty, fear, overwhelm, & other heightened emotions (both for your partner & yourself)
- Learn how to contend with birth trauma of your own & discover its ripple effects on your partner’s birth, the health of your child, & how you show up as a father
What’s included...
60-minute masterclass: Led by Eyla Cuenca and Dr. Andrew Kaufman.
Juicy Q&A session: Get your questions answered live.
Exclusive resources: PDFs, guides, and tools to help you on your journey.
For too long, men have stood on the sidelines of birth.
Yet your levels of consciousness, presence, and preparation directly influence how safe she feels.
When you rise into your role as a grounded masculine force, she can soften and surrender into her role as a mother.
Colin Safranek, Somatic Experiencing Expert
Eyla's Birth Class Students
Birth is one of the last initiatory portals available to modern men & women.
How can we honor its lessons without the social infrastructure that once made thriving after childbirth simple?
Here’s the truth.
Men were never intended to be emotional space holders during birth. For thousands of years, women gave birth with help from medicine women, surrounded by sisters, aunts, mothers, & cousins. Men were rarely present for birth: their role was to guard the premises & make sure the necessary provisions were available for their women.
But as society fractures & our neighbors become strangers, most of us lack the support of a family or community system.
As a result, women began leaning on strangers & the medical system, resulting in worldwide high-intervention birth & birth trauma. Because of these distortions, many men are uncertain about their role in birth.
On one end of the spectrum, women (consciously or unconsciously) expect emotional labor that men aren’t built to offer. Alternatively, men check out, watch Netflix, their eyes glued to their phones, standing by while women give birth. They shrug their shoulders and ask, “This is a woman’s business. What can I really do?”
Both scenarios cause polarity to break down, leading to the brother-sister dynamics that result in the demise of so many partnerships.
In this FREE masterclass, led by Dr. Andy Kaufman, you’ll learn effective & powerful perspectives needed by men to support their women throughout the marathon of birth.
Learn how men can help their women reclaim a structure that re-instills the sacred back into birth.
Meet your Guides
Eyla Cuenca
Dr. Andrew Kaufman
Hey there, I'm Eyla...
... Childbirth Educator, Doula, health freedom advocate & birth trauma alchemist. I connect women with empowering resources to help them practice self-reflection & self-acceptance. I act as a clean, compassionate mirror for you to work through trauma and limiting beliefs to empower yourself.
My work is dedicated to offering guidance that supports women and men in the process that is a return to their deepest knowing about birth, individual sovereignty, and the body’s innate intelligence.
With a BA in Anthropology and Ethnographic photography from Bennington College… I studied family systems and am passionate about helping change the conversation around the way women birth. I bring an anthropological lens to my work, with an eye for institutional critique.
I trained with the AAHCC founded by Robert A. Bradley, MD, where I specialized as a Birth Educator and Doula. My work as a Guardian Ad Litem for the 11th Judicial Circuit of Florida as well as attending over 200 births as a Doula – in both hospital and home settings – brought me into health freedom and advocacy work.
I thoroughly believe that it is everyone’s right to have access to empowering education from conception to parenting, and I'm excited to hold space for you as we uncover the hidden dimensions of birth, together.
Hey there, I’m Andy...
We might have been introduced several years ago when I blew the whistle on the plandemic and got fired from my position as a psychiatrist. Or perhaps a friend shared one of my many YouTube videos with you. Or it could be that we’ve met via Zoom on a live masterclass in my True Living Fellowship.
I’m a straight-shooter, and you’ll always get the unvarnished truth from me.
In this masterclass, my goal is to empower men to be physically & energetically prepared for the marathon of natural, un-disturbed physiological birth.
Let’s take back our agency from the medical system and support our women in the reclamation of birth as a sacred rite of passage.
In truth, health, and autonomy,
Andy
I'm so happy with Eyla and her team, it was such a necessary investment that will empower you and leave you feeling supported in every way no matter what kind of birth experience you choose.”
Janeisy L.
"Thank you for everything you've done Andrew Kaufman. Every bit of truth takes us closer to freedom"
- James Mountstephens
5-star Google reviews...
Uncover the essential practices for offering containment to yourself & your woman during this pivotal rite of passage.
-
Discover how to navigate your own fear, uncertainty, & triggers without information overload, alienating your woman, or sabotaging intimacy
-
Internalize the posture(s) you can take to support your woman…without putting undue pressure on yourself
-
Best practices for optimizing your vitality for the marathon of conception, pregnancy, birth, & fatherhood
-
Why you should avoid hospital birth if you want an easeful birth, a healthy baby, & long-lasting intimacy
With wisdom & knowledge gained from the home births of his own children, Dr. Kaufman will explore how men can prepare themselves for birth, what it means to take accountability, & the essential role of nutrition, detox, & testosterone in the lead-up to birth.
The Art of Masculine Space Holding: An Introduction
A FREE masterclass for men
Introducing the pathways to becoming a more embodied man with clear intention, presence, & inner/outer health. Learn what a man can offer to the birth space in this rare, free masterclass with Dr. Andy Kaufman & Eyla Cuenca.
Discover how to stay present & self-possessed during the marathon of birth.
Childbirth is a portal into your most sovereign self.
But as a man, what exactly is your role?
Under ideal conditions, birth is an initiatory ritual that invites both men & women to step through fear & into radical self-trust. But a man’s role in the birth process can seem murky. You might be wondering…
“Do I need to learn all the ins & outs of physiological birth?”
“What kind of support should I offer?”
“Isn’t there a fine line between showing up & over-stepping?”
When a man knows how to be a present, self-contained space-holder, birth can be like a magnetic force that turns up the volume on intimacy, polarity, & connection. But when men don’t offer proper containment, women shut down, & spiral into survival mode. This sea change leads to deep burrowing resentment, frayed sexual connection, & loss of a shared future.
If you’re a man who wants to hold space for this sacred rite of passage (and avoid the mistakes that hijack intimacy long-term), join us for a brand new, FREE masterclass.
Become the father, leader, & space holder she needs
What's inside this powerful masterclass + Q&A...
You’ll learn the essential work men can do to prepare psychologically, physically, & energetically for their partner’s birth.
We’ll explore…
- How to process fear & uncertainty during & leading up to birth – plus what is and isn’t helpful to share with your woman
- The unique posture men should take to ground their women during birth (recognizing that men are NOT doulas & aren’t intended to be emotional or spiritual space holders)
- What men need to know about detoxification, nutrition, & testosterone
- The essential practice that often makes the difference between a fear-saturated birth & an easeful one–and how you fit into this equation
- Why giving birth outside the medical system can be essential for the health of your woman, baby, & relationship
- Andy’s experiences with home births, plus best practices & pitfalls to be aware of
- How to offer containment to your woman & avoid the mistakes that sabotage it (leading to loss of intimacy, polarity, & sexual connection after birth)
The invitation
This free, masterclass will be perfect if you’d like to…
- Embody what your woman needs from you during the marathon of birth
- Communicate effectively (especially when things feel uncertain or out of control) without scaring her
- Cultivate discernment so you avoid unnecessary or harmful interventions
- Avoid the common intimacy saboteurs that come with birth (during postpartum & onward)
- Internalize essential practices for processing uncertainty, fear, overwhelm, & other heightened emotions (both for your partner & yourself)
- Learn how to contend with birth trauma of your own & discover its ripple effects on your partner’s birth, the health of your child, & how you show up as a father
What’s included...
60-minute masterclass: Led by Eyla Cuenca and Dr. Andrew Kaufman.
Juicy Q&A session: Get your pressing questions answered live.
Exclusive resources: PDFs, guides, and tools to help you on your journey.
For too long, men have stood on the sidelines of the birth experience.
But your level of consciousness, presence, and preparation directly influence how safe she feels.
When you rise into your role as a grounded masculine force, she can soften and surrender into her role as a mother.
Colin Safranek, Somatic Experiencing Expert
Eyla's Birth Class Students
Birth is one of the last initiatory portals available to modern men & women.
How can we honor its lessons without the social infrastructure that once made thriving after childbirth simple?
Here’s the truth.
Men were never intended to be emotional space holders during birth. For thousands of years, women gave birth with help from medicine women, surrounded by sisters, aunts, mothers, & cousins. Men were rarely present for birth: their role was to guard the premises & make sure the necessary provisions were available for their women.
But as society fractures & our neighbors become strangers, most of us lack the support of a family or community system.
As a result, women began leaning on strangers & the medical system, resulting in worldwide high-intervention birth & birth trauma. Because of these distortions, many men are uncertain about their role in birth.
On one end of the spectrum, women (consciously or unconsciously) expect emotional labor that men aren’t built to offer. Alternatively, men check out, watch Netflix, their eyes glued to their phones, standing by while women give birth. They shrug their shoulders and ask, “This is a woman’s business. What can I really do?”
Both scenarios cause polarity to break down, leading to the brother-sister dynamics that result in the demise of so many partnerships.
In this FREE masterclass, led by Dr. Andy Kaufman, you’ll learn effective & powerful perspectives needed by men to support their women throughout the marathon of birth.
Learn how men can help their women reclaim a structure that re-instills the sacred back into birth.
Meet your Guides
Eyla Cuenca
Hey there, I'm Eyla...
... Childbirth Educator, Doula, health freedom advocate & birth trauma alchemist. I connect women with empowering resources to help them practice self-reflection & self-acceptance. I act as a clean, compassionate mirror for you to work through trauma and limiting beliefs to empower yourself.
My work is dedicated to offering guidance that supports women and men in the process that is a return to their deepest knowing about birth, individual sovereignty, and the body’s innate intelligence.
With a BA in Anthropology and Ethnographic photography from Bennington College… I studied family systems and am passionate about helping change the conversation around the way women birth. I bring an anthropological lens to my work, with an eye for institutional critique.
I trained with the AAHCC founded by Robert A. Bradley, MD, where I specialized as a Birth Educator and Doula. My work as a Guardian Ad Litem for the 11th Judicial Circuit of Florida as well as attending over 200 births as a Doula – in both hospital and home settings – brought me into health freedom and advocacy work.
I thoroughly believe that it is everyone’s right to have access to empowering education from conception to parenting, and I'm excited to hold space for you as we uncover the hidden dimensions of birth, together.
"I'm so happy with Eyla and her team, it was such a necessary investment that will empower you and leave you feeling supported in every way no matter what kind of birth experience you choose.”
Janeisy L.
Dr. Andrew Kaufman
Hey there, I’m Andy...
... We might have been introduced several years ago when I blew the whistle on the Plandemic and got fired from my position as a psychiatrist. Or perhaps a friend shared one of my many YouTube videos with you. Or it could be that we’ve met via Zoom on a live masterclass in my True Living Fellowship.
I’m a straight-shooter, and you’ll always get the unvarnished truth from me. And if you’ve checked out my posts and videos on Instagram,YouTube, or Rumble you know I’m all about uncovering the truth.
Big Pharma and the modern medical establishment promotes so many things in the name of health, only to line their pockets.
And our government and legal system are rife with legal nuance and system-supporting loopholes that can leave everyday people locked into financial servitude if they don’t know their rights. It’s time to unveil the truth about legal identity and how it can be used to protect you.
I’ve already debunked the cholesterol theory and shown how it’s actually critical for the production of testosterone. I’ve developed healing protocols, including one for hair regrowth (you’ll be shocked by my before / after photos). And now, I’m creating a movement to help people become empowered by the law, not subjugated by it.
Freedom, sovereignty, and autonomy can all be achieved with proper knowledge and use of the law, and everyone can benefit from the secrets the wealthy elite have been using for years to protect themselves from liability and financial slavery.
Let’s take back our agency from the government and use it to build a free nation with the law on our side.
In truth, health, and autonomy,
Andy
"Thank you for everything you've done Andrew Kaufman. Every bit of truth takes us closer to freedom"
- James Mountstephens
5-star Google reviews...
Uncover the essential practices for offering containment to yourself & your woman during this pivotal rite of passage.
-
Discover how to navigate your own fear, uncertainty, & triggers without information overload, alienating your woman, or sabotaging intimacy
-
Internalize the posture(s) you can take to support your woman…without putting undue pressure on yourself
-
Best practices for optimizing your vitality for the marathon of conception, pregnancy, birth, & fatherhood
-
Why you should avoid hospital birth if you want an easeful birth, a healthy baby, & long-lasting intimacy
